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late night outing months back. Though I drafted the mail I somehow missed
sending it out, so here it is now.
Some disclaimers: This may be sounding silly for experienced/frequent outing
cd’s. Many of the tips available in net about how to go out dressed without
being caught etc, In spite of reading them and having some knowledge on them
when I personally went out for the first time it was hard overcoming some of my
male instincts. Also some of these may not qualify as tips but just the blunders
I realized after going out which you gals can avoid. So its worth going through
all these once again.
All of these may come naturally if you frequently go out and ignore all these
tips over a period of time, so to that extent this is just a starters guide.
These are not taken from anywhere, just my observations and not in any specific
order of importance.
1. Talk, and keep talking as much if you are with company- keeping quite
is not a gals nature unless there is something seriously wrong, but I don’t know
how to manage this when we do not have convincing voice or where others can
easily hear us.
2. Be bubbly and not serious- keep smiling- not difficult one, but still
needs a reason and one should carry it well and not look silly.
3. Relaxed and tension free face- without our knowledge we get in to this
mode especially if we are going out for the first time- avoid this and be
relaxed as much as possible.
4. Walk slowly- I cant believe my self- no matter how much ever I wanted
to walk slowly it was hard to do with smaller steps!!
5. Don’t jump steps- be delicate. I was almost about to do this monkey act
if I had not observed other guy who was staring at me J and suddenly I realized
that I am girl and not supposed to do all this.
6. If you need to tender cash/change, don’t reach to your usual valet at
back pocket (if on jeans). I almost did this at a petrol bunk, but girls always
keep their coins and cash in a hand bag.
7. Same thing applies for mobile also for extra feminine experience.
8. Also don’t reach for shirt pocket!! You know you have something
different in that position J
9. Don’t pick nose or other dirty acts which you might do unhesitantly in
male mode J
10. Don’t do any heavy duty/heoric acts like lifting heavy objects etc,.
11. Sit in cross legged position- I dint experience any notable troubles with
this, however worth mentioning.
12. Can avoid unnecessary eye contacts with others
People with more experience going out in day light/ early evening, who had
encountered many other situation can add many points to this list. My experience
is very limited and restricted to certain situation as I had not interacted much
with people on outing.
Courtecy: Unknown source on Internet
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